#AlltheSingleLadies: The Single Relationship, #TheSISTAHSMinistry

You do not need to be loved, not at the cost of yourself. The single relationship that is truly central and crucial in a life is the relationship with the Lord. Of all the people you will know in a lifetime, He is the only One you will never lose.

Mixed Up with Somewhere to Go, #AlltheSingleLadies

Think about the ingredients required to bake a cake: flour, eggs, sugar, oil, etc. Individually, they are not at all appealing but once mixed together and baked in an oven, they all combine to make a very tasty dessert. Similarly, individual events in life may not seem very pleasant either, but together they all work to make up a very blessed life.

Trusting God to Be Single... Really? #AlltheSingleLadies

Enjoy your singleness, because singleness will not likely last forever. This is not punishment, nor have you been sent to detention.  It's just your assigned state for the moment.  Don't just give lip service to the words, if you trust God, really trust Him. The best place in the world to be is in His will, and if it's His will that you are not married right now, why would you want to be anywhere else?

Don't Just Sit Around, #AlltheSingleLadies

God doesn't want you to just sit around waiting in our singleness, you should be serving. In fact, once you are married you will likely not have the time to serve as much because then marriage and family will become your first ministry priority.

Waiting is Hard, #AlltheSingleLadies

But don't allow someone's insensitivity (likely unintentional) to cause you to question God's love for you. God loves you more than you will ever know. What's more, He knows you better than you know yourself. He knows what lies ahead and thus allows you to go through certain challenges to prepare you for the challenges ahead. Let God be God and go with the flow because you can rest assured He has your best interest at heart. God loves you more than you love yourself and He will always love you better than anyone else ever will.

Season of Singleness, #AlltheSingleLadies

Don't be in such a hurry to be married that you  marry just about anyone that comes along then wonder why you are so miserable. You've tried everything else, now try waiting on God.

Singleness doesn’t have to be a burden, it’s actually a great opportunity to serve. Enjoy this time just getting to know yourself and God better. Granted, some days that will be easier said than done, but believe me, it is possible.

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God is the great I AM. (Exodus 3:14) God is whatever or whoever you need Him to be. Learn and use the Names of God.

I'll say this once again, singleness is not a bad thing! In fact, many single women have gone on to live very full, well-balanced lives. Some have even gotten married and started families, which just goes to prove you're not necessarily destined to be single forever.

Don't put your life on hold waiting to be married. Also, don't wait until you're sick and tired of being sick and tired to start enjoying your life. There is no reason why you can enjoy a full life right now.


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